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In our society today there are various speculations as to what makes sexual relationships interesting. The issue of foreplay has been rated high. However there have been various comments about the duration of foreplay. Whereas some persons prefer shorter foreplay - concluding that longer foreplay reduces sexual urge thereby leading to unenjoyable sex, other (especially ladies) attach so much importance to foreplay and believe it should last as long as possible in order to enhance sexual satisfaction. Infact, some ladies believe a man who does not involve in adequate foreplay can not bring satisfaction to them, whereas, some men believe in "point and kill", that is, no foreplay, just straight to s*x and in a few minutes, he is "home and dry".
Also some ladies who believe in foreplay are being viewed by some men in the society as promiscuous or " loose". Their concept or ideology of a decent lady should be "one who is pious, a novice and naive during sex. To them therefore, a lady who complains about not having enough foreplay with her partner before s*x is "wild."
Foreplay is more important as the s*x itself in a relationship and as such, should be treated and given as much attention as is given to the act of s*x itself. Females (especially), place a high value on foreplay and those who engage in it tend to be more satisfied (sexually) and happy. Some ladies even consider it as rape or see themselves as "being used" (in their usual parlance) when their partners do not involve in foreplay.
It is no news that female folks attach more value to foreplay than men. Foreplay, in my opinion however, should be a prerequisite for s*x in every relationship and should as much as possible be engaged in, for a happier and more satisfying sexual life.
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